1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matterif time before another woman takes over theat duty. Most man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)

11). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
12) Pray always for your husband and your marriage. What else will make your Christian marriage any different from any other troubled marriage? The average marriage has less than a 50% chance of success.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Stop watching/reading Housewife reality TV shows, soap operas, and trashy "love" novels. What you watch, listen to, and/or read will become apart of you. While these shows may seem exciting, intriguing, and good for entertainment, they send improper messages about marriage and your role as a wife.
16). Marriage is a partnership. And yet, you make major decisions without checking with your husband first. Where to go for the holidays or how to spend a tax return are big decisions that your husband should have a say in.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things.Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him.Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, nevercompare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)
Have a lovely day..... God bless you all!


  1. there is not such as perfect women but it is good to know God rules. I try to apply most of them but also helps that I have a wonderful sweet loving husband. we both try to follow God's rules in our marriage. there is a lot of evil in this world now days that the best thing to do is pray and have faith.

  2. Who wrote this? Most scriptures are taken out of context.

  3. This is an awful awful series of point and especially point 10. How does this help a women who has married a man with a porn habit, and one that existed pre marriage. A wife is not responsible for a mans purity. A husband must love his wife as Christ loved the church, he laid himself down for it. Many women will be triggered to feel ineffectual and ungodly by this. Gods word builds up not tears down. This is not godly.

  4. Am not sure on what basis they came up with these points..kindly take it down. I should say it's just a misuse of Bible words. Pt 2, the reference verse says, It is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret.
    Ephesians 5:12 NIV
    Are u trying to say, the actions of husbands are shameful and should not be discussed outside?? Is that what u give it as reference?
    When I took each and every reference and read it, I was totally disappointed with ur choice of references.
    God basements everything in just 2 commandments. One is seeking Him with whole heart second one is unconditional love. Who are u to list out so many commands imposing on wives?
    You sure can write on your own but not using misleading refrences from Bible. Surely it's not biblical and its surely not what God said.


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